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Do Your Parents Support Your Dreams?
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A Note From The Los Angeles Teen Therapist
“My parents never support me in anything except school and things they want. I wanna be a actor/singer. My mom won’t even sign me up for acting classes.
PARENTS WANT TO PROTECT THEIR CHILDREN
In an attempt to protect their children from disappointment, parents often try steer them towards careers they are more familiar and comfortable with. It sounds like your parents have some strong ideas about what it means to be and actor or singer. It might be helpful to sit down with them and ask about their concerns.
RESPECTFUL COMMUNICATION GOES A LONG WAY
As you know, the entertainment industry is highly competitive. The hours that are required to be successful in that profession can can take away time from school, friendships and other social activities. Your parents may be concerned that you will miss out on the experience of adolescence by focusing on being in the entertainment industry. If you are respectful in listening to them, you may find that they may be more open to hearing your request for acting lessons.
FIND A MIDDLE GROUND
Expressing your interests in a mature manner will probably go further than sulking or storming around the house. See if there is a middle ground that you and your parents can agree on. For example, perhaps they would be open to your taking an acting class as long as you to maintain a certain GPA, and/or participate in an activity of their choosing.
CREATE OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOURSELF
In my experience, joining the singing and theatre groups at school is a good way to prove that you are serious about your passion for performing. As time goes by, your parents may discover that you have the talent and commitment to go the distance with your acting/singing career.
If you and your teen are struggling to communicate about similar topics, I can help sort things out. I invite you take that critical next step, and allow me to demonstrate the support I can offer to you and your family.
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